Wedding Bells For Brian and Kevin

First Page - Previous - Next - Last - Add Entry - Other Topics - Message Boards - Exit Page 21 of 75 Submitted by Hayley from Brisbane Queensland AUSTRALIA Date: Wed Feb 23 21:04:42 2000 i have nothing but happy feelings about the marriage proposals. congratulations to both brian and kevin. everyone deserves to be happy and i hope that both the guys and their brides-to-be will be happy for the rest of their lives, as they deserve to be. girls that are upset, look at it from their point of view. best wishes to them both. Submitted by christina from Virgina Beach usa Date: Wed Feb 23 20:13:23 2000 I'm Back just let'n ya'll know that i still like them but they seem diffrent and I will never leave them but I still LOVEEEEEE Kevin so much and I'm happy for them to but yeah I am majorly jealous I guess it seemed that when kevin was single you could have the daydreams that you were going out or married to him or brian but now you can't now that you know it wouldn't be the same as before daydreams that is when my friend found out that Brian was married she hit the walls she went litterally psyco she tore down every pic of brian she had and had a bondfire in her backyard practically I was sad that she hated them that much and that she does now, the reason I want them to come up here is so that i could hook up with Back Stage Passes and meet them and take her with me cuz I know that if she met them she would fall in love all over agian with them but they won't come up here.=( BSB if you read this take this seroiusly cuz she locked herself in her room for like 3 days and would not come out as it was we had to use a crow bar to get the door open and that's not funny, the whole time she was crying so her eye's were swollen to witts end Submitted by sara from Ottawa Canada Date: Wed Feb 23 19:41:44 2000 Ok, I am a MAJOR Brian fan..I've loved this guy for four years..and I don't like this. Now, I'll admit it, I'm VERY jealous, I would LOVE to be in her shoes..and, I'm also glad that Brian's happy. But, well, to be honest I never really liked Leighanne, I feel that ever since they started dating Bri's changed..A LOT. He's not as happy or funny anymore. He seems so distant from the rest of the guys, and I honestly think he seems unhappy, now that might not have anything to do with Leighanne, but don't you find it to be EXTREMELLY coincidental that all this started around the time they hooked up?! A lot of people think he's matured, and I understand that, but I miss the way he WAS.Plus, it bothers me the way that Bri's *supposedly* in her movie *this might not actually be true*, but, I mean, think of how many people will come see her movie if he IS in it?! Which, of course means more money and popularity for her..now I know you're all thinking that I'm accusing her of using him, and I'M NOT..I'm just pointing out the facts.. I also think that Bri's a little young to be married, he IS only 25! I also feel that all of you who say we don't have the right to say our opinions are being really well, rude. THEY announced it to the public, I'm sure they realised that some people weren't gonna like it, and yet they did it anyways. I mean, do you honestly think it matters to them? They're happy with their fiancees, they still have the majority of their fans, so why do they care if a few poeple don't whole-heartedly like the fact they're taken? . And for those of you who say I'm not a "real fan", who gave you the right to decide who is and isn't a real fan?! I've spent thousands of dollars and countless hours on them, I love them and their music a lot, and just because I don't like something that they're doing, doesn't make me an "un-true fan". Submitted by Christina from Virgina Beach USA Date: Wed Feb 23 19:05:36 2000 I don't like it at all I mean I happy for them but that pissed me off Cuz I'm or was Currently dropping a hard core Kevin fan. If I could say one thing to the five of them I would tell them how poed I am that they won't come up and play for us when we support them and love them however not make ya'll mad they go everywhere else and play all around us and overseas but not to us the colsest place they ever play is in NC that is sooooooo RUDE Submitted by Mary Jo McLean from san pedro nuevo leon mexico Date: Wed Feb 23 18:19:33 2000 i am really happy for brian and kevin, really! congratulatoin guys!! i hope you have a great life with them but please don't (by any means) break up! i hope they dont break up! I am glad AJ isn't getting married yet he is too young and he is waiting to see me at San Antonio, Texas at the Alamodome march 1. Well and for the girls that say they are leaving backsreet for nsync let me tell you that you are not a true fan so what are you doing here!!! well ive gotta go study!!! bye bye keep the backstreet pride alive! Aj i love you baby!!!! mary jo mclean Submitted by Deborah from Charlotte North Carolina Usa Date: Wed Feb 23 17:50:52 2000 ATTENTION: FOR EVERYBODY WHO SEES THIS PLEASE READ, PLEASE READ!!!!! I know kevin and brian's engagement made a lot of fans have bad blood with the boys. The thing I don't understand is that after all the boys have done for us, many of us are ungrateful and turned our backs on them. These BOYS have worked 7 years to get their voices heard. The boys started out during a time where pop music was ''uncool'', [due to angst, rap,etc], and gave up their young lives to perform. While many kids were going to school and learning algebra and puberty, these boys were on stage every night trying to make it. I know i'm getting off, the subject here, but the boys know what failure is and I don't believe they want slumping sales and running themselves low on the charts. They experienced in 95' when we've got it goin on barely made it. That's not the point, the point is that the boys have been through hell and back. 1998, where many of us fans had to pray for these boys because of heart surgery, family loss, management problems. etc. were haunting. But these boys are survivors, and wanted to take control of their careers. Many of those ''fans'' should be glad that the boys have made it this far. How many teen idols have been more respected, more accolades, and more attention to than the backstreet Boys.Honestly, it will be an uphill struggle for many boy bands of today to achieve the succes of our boys. NEARLY IMPOSSIBLE!! These guys have become MEN and stirred a little controversy while at it[ rolling stone cover, leaving Jive forever], and still come up. Now that two of them are married, we HAVE to support them. Please fans bear with me on this! All the boys success is up to us. let's prove all those critics wrong by joining together. KTBSPA. Submitted by Brittany from Orlando Florida USA Date: Wed Feb 23 17:41:25 2000 Valerie, or whatever your name is Shut the heck up and be happy for them!!!!! Submitted by Marika from San Fransisco CA USA Date: Wed Feb 23 17:33:32 2000 I think it's the best thing thats ever happened to the guys! I personally already knew about the engagments a couple months ago, so this wasn't a big shock to me. Brian and Kevin are as happy as they could ever be! And thats all that counts. Did you see Kev talking about Kat (Kristan) on MTV? He was so happy!! I'm so happy to see that Herald is B and Liegha's best man! (If i'm not mistaken, but I think he was the one to introduce them) This is a happy time for the guys and their family's so even if you were a fan that expected them to marry you, please give them your full sapport. They deserve all the happy times they can get! (even if that means they have to take a little brake for a while after the big day) We love you guys so much, and we'll be with you every step of the way! BSB WE LOVE YOU! Submitted by Valerie from Atlanta USA Date: Wed Feb 23 17:11:12 2000 I read a dumb comment by somebody who said "this wasn't any of our business", when it clearly is. They came out and told the WORLD so the news is now the WORLD's property. BSB are trying to hard to be seen as a mature group. You are what you are. You do not have to married in order to be seen as a 'real' star. Look at Michael Jacksonhe made the most impact when he was single, Lenny Kravtiz made the biggest impact when he was single, the list goes on and on. Also why do we have to support them and their women. Im sorry but that is too much. I am not going to buy bacon for Kevin, Kristen, Brian, Leighanne, and their future children. Forget it!! Submitted by cool from los angelos california us Date: Wed Feb 23 17:03:59 2000 HI I AM BACK AND I HAVE BEEN READING A LOT OF THINGS PEOPLE ARE SAYING I HEARD THAT ONE PERSON SAYS THE ARE DROPPING THE BACKSTREET BOYS LIKE A BAG OF BRICKS!!! CAN YOU BELIVE IT???IF YOU AGREE WITH ME THAT PEOPLE T HAT PEOPLE SHOULD NOT BE DROPPING THE BSB LIKE A BOX OF ROCKS IM ME PLEASE. Submitted by Stephanie from Calgary Alberta Canada Date: Wed Feb 23 16:49:55 2000 I think that it's great that Kevin and Brian are going to get married! I think that everyone deserves happiness and i also think that they shouldn't have to stay single in order for their fans to love them! i wish em all the best~! PEACE~! Submitted by Vicky &Sarah from London UK Date: Wed Feb 23 15:28:51 2000 I really don't think that people r getting what we r saying, so i'm going to post our comments about the 'marriages' up again. Read carefully and note that we know that they r normal human beings and we state this several times aswell as stating that we r being selfish and we know. Right................ Well, we r really annoyed with the people that r saying that by being upset about the 'marriages' we are not true Backstreet fans. Well, that is not for u to judge. We have been Backstreet SUPPORTERS since Nick was 14 and that has been 6 long years. Now u can’t say that we have not grown to know, love and respect them in all this time so don’t judge. The Backstreet Boys themselves always say that they r normal human beings and so our feelings are normal human feelings. Why should we deny that we r angry. Our anger is not directed at Kevin (as we realise that it’s his time, even though we were still shocked). But Brian.........well that’s another story. Why r we angry? The way that he has dealt with the situation. For example. Why did he only 'confess' to his engagement once Kevin had also got engaged. He and Leighanne have been engaged for a long time, we understand that he has to tell in his own time but we get the feeling that he never intended too even say it. Secondly Brian of all the backstreets constantly reminds us that his private life (including g/f's) is private. So why may I ask does he flaunt them in his music videos!!!! E.g. *Sam (g/f #1) was in 'We've got it goin on' *Leighanne then appeared on our screens (much not to our delight) in the 'new' 'I'll never break your heart' video. *AND Leighanne was also in the 'As long as you love me' video (tits and all). And here is also a fact for everybody to think about. (We know this fact as we got it straight from the Backstreet band and Dancers) Leighanne has changed Brian!!!!!!!! FACT!!!! He is no longer the same happy-go-lucky Brian that we once knew (or thought we did). And also since Leighanne has come along do we ever see Frick & Frack. (I think not). Things have changed and however much Brian states that he has 'MATURED' this is not a reason to completely do a U-turn. He is not the same. E.g. On a MTV news interview once he did not say one word and he continued to stare at the floor fiddling with a Coca-Cola bottle the whole time. We understand that he may have been tired and just generally on a low. But I’m sure the other guys felt exactly the same way. Obviously we r not there 24/7 to observe so we only say what we see and think. ALSO. In some interviews e.g. top 40 countdown, concert preview on trouble he is blatantly rude to other members of the band. We r not saying ‘Oh, he can’t get married he is mine’ that is immature and stupid. But he has dashed thousands of girl’s dreams (not that he can help that by announcing marriage). There is no way that these girls who believe they love Brian in any way, shape or form can be happy for him. They may accept the fact that he is getting married but the jealousy does not go away. We all have to admit that we wish to be Leighanne and to be the one that makes him happy!!!!! Here is a ‘normal’ example. If u really liked a ‘normal’ guy who told u that he was getting married u r saying that u would not be upset…..crushed in fact. It is the same for Brian lovers (e.g. Sarah) coz she (Sarah) sees him as a normal guy. And she is dealing with this in that way, as if he were somebody that lived down the road. Now we r going to admit the reason we r angry about his marriage…………..It is because we want him in our lives (and the rest of the guys too! - esp Nick for Vicky and as we said before Sarah is the Brian lover, lol). We want to go shopping with them, go to the movies, play basketball, hang out and just simply be there with them. Even just being in the same room, having the same conversation and hearing their opinions on issues that interest them and us. That is what we dream about. Not hanging out at a concert backstage or going to ‘glamorous’ award ceremonies. It is not the hype that we dream about; it’s not what it’s about. It is about spending time with five normal guys who you can relate to. We are being selfish, you think we don’t know this, we are not a part of their every day lives, yet they are a big part of ours, this is why it hurts!!!!!!!! We are not only angry at them, we are angry at ourselves for allowing them to make us feel this way, BUT knowing somebody for six years, even though you have never met them does that to you! We especially feel this way as we are from the UK, we feel like they don’t even think about us anymore, let alone acknowledge the fact that they have thousands of fans here. The only reason we learn about what is happening in their lives and careers is through web pages like these!! They don’t even remember names of awards we have given them or the fact that they repeat the same songs on the singles!! E.g. ‘I’ll be there for you’ was on the ‘I want it that way’ single and ‘Show me the meaning’. How forgetful can you be!! But we will still be here for them, just like we always were! That will never change! After all it is all about the music!! (Well most of the time). To finish up (as it’s getting late) we hope we have not sounded angry, obnoxious, rude or bitter. We’ll get over it!!!!!!!!!!!! Music is love, love is music, music is our lives & we love our lives. So thank you and goodnight!!!! Submitted by Lynz from Woodstock Ontario Canada Date: Wed Feb 23 15:16:38 2000 This isn't as much my opinion on the whole situation with brian and kevin getting married thing, it's just more of an eye opener, it's something i heard on the radio. there was a countdown where the listeners call in and vote. the number one song was n syncs bye bye bye. the radio dj was like "there was a girl who called in to vote for the backstreet boys show me the meaning, and i asked her why not many fans were calling in anymore to vote for them", and she said "well brian and kevin got engaged so all their fans are going bye bye bye." double meaning there, the fans are leaving, and not only just leaving bsb,they're moving on the n sync....guys without future wives. Submitted by erica carter from cl us Date: Wed Feb 23 14:56:39 2000 i think that it is great that they have found the right people 4 them to spend there lives with. i wish them well in the future. its not like getting married is going to change there great voices. as long as nicks not getting married im ok cause if he was i would have to kick some butt!!!! (j/k) Submitted by Diana from Temple View Hamilton New Zealand Date: Wed Feb 23 14:09:23 2000 Congratualtions!! It couldn't happen to two nicer guys. Having been married for quite a number of years, all I can say is that it's nice to have someone to share all your life's dreams with. There will be ups and downs, and yes, some fans will see this as a betrayal, but you guys are individuals too. Just remember, always be honest with your partner, realise when you are at fault (this is for the girls too) and never go to bed angry. And keep on singing. PLEASE!!!! Submitted by Sarah from NY NY U.S. Date: Wed Feb 23 13:59:28 2000 I think that they shouldn't get married just yet because I know that millions of fans' hearts were broken and that includes mine too. Also, I think the marriages could lead up to the break-up of BSB. But in the same sence, I'm kinda happy for them both. As long as they know that we still love them, they will keep loving us back. My luv always! Submitted by cool from losvegas california us Date: Wed Feb 23 13:58:18 2000 I LOVE BSB AND I AM SO HAPPY THAT THEY ARE GETTING MARRIED!! I GUESS I WAS KINDA SURPRISED WHEN I HEARD THE NEWS BUT REALLY I AM HAPPY FOR THE BSB AND ALL OF YOU WHO ARE DUMPPING THE BSB BECAUSE THEY ARE GETTING MARRIED HAQVE A PROBLEM IT DOES NOT MEAN THAT THEY ARE GOING TO BREAK UP JUST BECAUSE OF IT. OH PLEASE IF YOU ARE DUMPPING BSB YOU CAN GO CRYING TO YOUR DUMB LITTLE NSTINK AND THE WILL SING BYE BYE BYE WICH THEY CAN GO BYE BYE BYE AND I MEAN THEY SHOULD AND ANOTHER THING ABOUT NSTINK THAY COPPIE BSB AND I HOPPE THEY ALL GO BYE BYE BYE AND BSB WILL STAY STAY STYALOL SO IF YOU ARE DUMPING THE BSB BECAUSE YUO THINK NSTINK IS BETTER YOU BETTER GET OFF THIS SITE RIGHT AWAY OR I WILL FIND WHO YOU AR EAND I WILLL TRACK YOU DOWN!!!!!!!!J/K!!!!!!!!!!!WELL YOU REALLY SHOULDNT BE ON THIS SITE IF YOU HATE BSB AND IF YOU LIKE NSTINK I WONT HATE YOU I WILL DIPISE OU SO DO NOT I REAPET DO NOT DUMP[ BSB BECAUSE OF THE MARRIGE PLESSE KEEP THE BSB PRIDE ALIVE AND LETS HOPE THAT THE BSB WIN SOME GRAMMIES!!!!!AND BOO HOO HOOO NSTINK IS NOT NAMINATED FOR ANY WHILE THE BSB IS NOMINATED FOR4!!!!!!!! LETS GO BSB AS YOU CAN SEE I LOVE I MEAN LOVE BSB AND I D O NOT CARE IF THEY GET MARRIED I WILL STILL LOVE NO MATTER WHAT ANDTHE BSB EVEN SAID THEM SEELVES THAT THEY WONT BREAK UP AND I WOULD BELIVE THEM!!!!!!!I HOPE BSB WINN ALOT OF GRAMMIES AND THAT THEY BEAT NSTINK Submitted by jeanne from naples fl usa Date: Wed Feb 23 13:56:55 2000 I think it is great! These guys should be able to have normal lives and still have their fans appreciate them. I am an older fan, so maybe it's easier for me to see them as people rather than "fantasy boyfriends" (don't get me wrong, I would LOVE to have Kevin for myself!!) I hope everyone keeps supporting them by buying their albums and going to their shows. Submitted by Sarah from NY NY U.S. Date: Wed Feb 23 13:53:09 2000 I think that they shouldn't get married just yet because I know that millions of fans' hearts were broken and that includes mine too. Also, I think the marriages could lead up to the break-up of BSB. Submitted by Danielle Brooks from Washington DC USA Date: Wed Feb 23 12:59:23 2000 I think that it is great and I'm so happy for them, Kev and Brian are such nice guys and they deserve all the happiness in the world, Leighanne and Kristin are probably nice women, I have never met them but I'm sure that they are cool, and I hope that both couples have very happy marriages and be forever happy!!!!!!!!!!!!!! First Page - Previous - Next - Last - Add Entry - Other Topics - Message Boards - Exit Page 21 of 75