Submitted by Lynn W. from Lafayette CA USA
Date: Mon Jul 9 21:29:35 2001
AJ, I really hope you get better. It must be hard on the road and I'm glad you're getting a chance to deal with something you've been struggling with and get some needed rest. I know people who have been depressed and I saw how difficult it was for them to get better. But you're a strong person and we know you will be able to overcome this. We all support you and care about you. I will pray for you every night and wish you luck in overcoming your struggles. :)
Submitted by gina from grenta new orleans USA
Date: Mon Jul 9 21:29:28 2001
aj i think you were very brave for admitting you promlem to the the guys i hope you get better soon keep up the good work and try hard bsb wouid not be the same without you please get better soon love your#1 fan gina
Submitted by Eileen from Suffield CT USA
Date: Mon Jul 9 21:28:07 2001
Dear AJ (if you read this), Words cannot describe how I feel about you. You seriously are the strongest, bravest member of BSB to get up enough courage to say to your friends that you need help. Although I didn't watch TRL, I was shocked when I heard the news. Please, AJ, get through this. We all love you so much and we only want the best for you. I love you so much and good luck. I'll be praying for you. One of your numerous dedicated fans, Eileen
Submitted by Kelly from Chicago Illinois USA
Date: Mon Jul 9 21:27:59 2001
AJ, I am so thankful that u are seeking help. All ur fans are praying for u and will keep on praying for u until u are better. I beleive in u AJ and I know u will come through this. Ur a brave sole and I know u will fight this. I will keep u in my prayers. I love u sooooo much AJ...we all do..never forget that please. We will have ur back no matter what....I promise that.
Submitted by Joanne from Daly City CA USA
Date: Mon Jul 9 21:27:07 2001
Dear AJ (or do you prefer Alex?):I may not know you or understand the things going on but I DO know what it's like to be depressed. Nothing will help, so I won't tell you any jokes or "cheer up" or "snap out of it" or anything like that. I'm sorry I can't do anything to help. The only thing I can do is hope you make progress and pray for you, along with the my fellow Backstreet Boys fans. Personally, I was surprised; you did a very good job of hiding this depression. And I know that it's gone way too far to hide now. However, I understand that this is the best decision, and that you are very fortunate to even get help for this. And I understand if it takes more than a month. I hope the people complaining about the postponements will come to realize that this is for the best. Meanwhile, just remember that even if you never completely heal, we'll wait as long as it takes until you are ready to perform again. Admitting something like that is never easy. God bless you and thank you for being honest about this. Respectfully, Joanne Caritan
Submitted by Ana from Campinas Sao Paulo Brazil
Date: Mon Jul 9 21:26:59 2001
Aj, I´m glad you decided to treat this problem you have. I hope you know that all of us, your fans, we´re here and we´re going to support you every step you take in your life. You´re still that nice guy, and we´ll never forget you where ever you are. I hope to see you back soon on the stage with your brothers, the BSB, doing what you guys do best; make us happy; with your voices; your happiness. I´m praying for you. We will always love ya!!You rock our world!Be good! love...
Submitted by Sarah Gwizdala from Bay City Michigan USA
Date: Mon Jul 9 21:26:58 2001
AJ, I have always been so drawn to you since day one, because I can see that we are a lot of like. Sometimes we both do things for shock value, changing our hair, getting tatoos things like that. I could always tell that you too used jokes when you were upset or depressed, you could never cry or show emotion when you were around others, but you would go off by yourself to vent. Reading what you bandmates have said today has only confirmed those similarities between us. Sometimes it is hard for people who are not in your head to know just how sensitive you are. I guess it takes a real man (or woman) to show the world who you really are. You are so strong to be able to admit to your problems, and I want you to remember that you have so many people behind you. Your family, friends, the other boys, and your millions and millions of fans. No one is disappointed in you, no one thinks any less of you. I have never been prouder to be a backstreet fan as I was today when I heard that you were able to admit to your problems. So often we try to handle things on our own, but nothing ever gets solved that way. Please rest, reflect, and get well. You will be in my thoughts and most especially my prayers during the next 30 days and beyond. I have always saw a light inside you shining for the whole world to see, somehow I knew over the past several weeks that the light had faded slightly, but I feel in my heart that when this 30 days is up you'll be back shining brighter for the whole world to see. You have taken the first step and that is always the hardest. God bless you and keep you in this your hour of need.Love ya!!!!
Submitted by Beth from South Kingstown Rhode Island USA
Date: Mon Jul 9 21:26:44 2001
We love you... Get better...
Submitted by Tania from El Paso TX USA
Date: Mon Jul 9 21:25:50 2001
Aj,I'm so proud of you for facing that problem.I'm praying for you and i know you will get better.I love you with all my heart and when i saw kevin,nick,howie and brian like that and when they said the news,i cried.I love you and take your time,I will wait for you and take all the time you need.
Submitted by Amanda from Ohio USA
Date: Mon Jul 9 21:25:34 2001
Alexander James McLean, When I first heard about the story on TRL today, I was devestated. My friend and I cried and have been upset since. It was brave of you to confront them about your problem. I admire you for that. I really hope you get better. All of your fans will be here for you. You guys have a great future together. The song you were working on on your tour bus was amazing. We love you AJ!Get better soon, Amanda
Submitted by erika from querétaro Mexico
Date: Mon Jul 9 21:25:31 2001
Hi Bone: i don´t know if you're going to read this,but if you do, i just want you to know that even though we don't know each other, You are in my mind and in my heart and i know that God will help you to go through this, i will pray for you everyday, Bone i just want you to know that i love you and that everything's going to be fine, you can do it bone, i know. you have my support and my love forever.
Submitted by Katie from Union City Ca USA
Date: Mon Jul 9 21:24:36 2001
AJ, I am SOOO very proud of you for seeking the help you need. Thats the first step. I know you'll make it through this because your a kind, caring and strong person. If you ever think of quitting... always remember all of us, the fans, that love you and support you and want you to get better. KTBSBPA We love you!
Submitted by Asha from St. Louis Missouri USA
Date: Mon Jul 9 21:23:35 2001
AJ, I just want to say that I'm so very proud of you for being so brave and having that much courage in going up to the guys and confessing to them that you want and need help. I've never gone through a depression, but I can imagine that it's terrible. I know that you're going to get through it, it may take a lot to do it, but in the end, you'll get through it. I really really do hope you get better and no matter what, don't you dare think your alone! You're fans, Brian, Nick, Howie, and Kevin, your family, your friends, me, and God are all right at your side. And I know that you're in each of those people's prayers. I'll be praying for you each night at my bedside until you finally get better! So God bless you and do your best! Alcohol is just junk that ruins your mind and slowly kills you. You're WAY to special to lose! I love you!
Submitted by Kateiin from mount airy north carolina USA
Date: Mon Jul 9 21:22:51 2001
To U aJ, I wish i could say that i knew you personally because you seem like a really great guy. I just can't belive you have to go throw what you are going through. I have the deepest most respect for bsb for beging honest with the fans, and for aj for admiting a promblem like that He's the biggest man in the group at heart. I'm still a little shocked so I don't know how to explain what i fell beacuse i just saw aj in concert last month and he seemed fine to me. I hope and pray you'll come back to bsb they need you more that anything right now. i love ya aj,nick, brian, howie, brian. ktbpa for aj.
Submitted by Alexis from Santa Cruz CA USA
Date: Mon Jul 9 21:22:19 2001
Alex, I wish you the best the of luck!I know you can get throw this because you are very strong. Also I know that it is hard for you but remember to keep your head up and never down and I will see you in August. I will keep a place in my prays for you also!So God bless and love you lots!!!
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